Rabbi Cy Stanway's Podcast
Assorted sermons and divrei Torah (Torah thoughts) from Rabbi Cy Stanway.
Rabbi Cy Stanway's Podcast
Small People, Big Message
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The Torah drops a line that sounds impossible to reconcile: Moses tells Israel that God didn’t choose them because they were numerous, “for you are the fewest of all peoples.” But wait, aren’t Abraham’s descendants promised to be like the stars and the sand? And weren’t the Israelites so many in Egypt that Pharaoh panicked and enslaved them? We take that tension seriously, because it’s not just a textual problem, it’s a blueprint for Jewish identity.
We walk through how classic commentators tackle the contradiction, including readings that depend on timing, on being “small” relative to empires, and on Rashi’s striking idea that love is more demanding when it attaches to the few. From there, we zoom out to the bigger theme: humility isn’t pretending we don’t matter. It’s refusing to let impact turn into ego. A message meant for the whole world doesn’t require a majority, it requires persistence and a willingness to carry meaning when it’s unpopular.
Then we test that idea against history and the present. Crusades, inquisitions, forced conversions, and genocidal regimes should have ended the Jewish story by any rational measure, yet empires vanish and Jewish life keeps rebuilding. We also talk about modern antisemitism in America and Israel, the strange convergence of hate from opposite directions, and an unexpected post October 7 reality where some secular Jews leaned in more strongly to Jewish identity and connection to Israel. If you’re searching for language to hold fear and faith at the same time, this conversation aims to give it to you.
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The Puzzle Of Being Few
SPEAKER_00There is a verse in this week's parasha that seems to make no sense in the context of the Torah. Moses tells the people quite plainly that God did not set his affection on them because they were numerous. In fact, Moses says the opposite, for you are the fewest of all people. So what's wrong with that? I'll tell you. Remember that God promised Abraham that his children, his descendants would be as numerous as the stars of the sky and the sand on the beach? Too many to number, too many to count on a clear night. And in the book of Exodus, we are told that the Israelites multiplied so quickly, so successfully, that a frightened Pharaoh looked upon them and panicked. He enslaved an entire people precisely because there were too many of them. That's not a portrait of the fewest of all peoples. That's a portrait of a demographic emergency. So which is it? Are we as countless as the stars, or are we as the smallest of all nations? For a moment, it feels like the Torah is arguing with itself. Now, commentators have wrestled with this contradiction as well, and their answers are worth learning. Some say it's a matter of timing. We were very few when we were first
Commentators Untie The Contradiction
SPEAKER_00chosen, back in Abraham's day, and we only grew more numerous later, so that both verses are true just at different points on the timeline. Okay. Others say it's a matter of relativity, small compared to the empires of Egypt or Canaan, even if large in absolute terms. The way that, for instance, a city of a hundred thousand people feels small standing next to a nation of millions. Rashi reads it as an act of divine restraint, almost tender in its logic. This is what Rashi said. God loved us even though loving the very few is harder. It's a more deliberate kind of love than loving the crowd everybody wants to be near. Anyone can love what's popular. It takes something else to commit yourself to what is overlooked. Interesting. Now all of those readings are worth sitting with. A people who came into being in humility and who are being commanded to hold on to that posture no matter how many they become, no matter how much
Impact Without Ego
SPEAKER_00they accomplish. Largeness of impact was never supposed to translate into largeness of ego. That distinction between how many we are and how we see ourselves has turned out to be the story of Jewish history. By any account, we are a small people. We have never been more than a rounding error in the world's population. And yet, the Jewish footprint on human civilization, ethics, law, medicine, science, literature, the very idea that history bends towards moral meaning is wildly out of proportion to our numbers. No serious person judges a nation by its size. They judge a nation by what they leave behind. A tiny people has left behind an outsized inheritance. And we did that as Jews by not thinking of ourselves as small and insignificant. We did it by understanding quietly and consistently that being small, being few in number, was never a disqualification. In fact, you can argue that it was the precondition. A message meant for the whole world doesn't need a majority to carry it. It needs a people willing to keep carrying it when almost no one else will. By every rational measure, the Jewish people should not have survived. The crusades, all ten of them, eleven of them, tried to kill us, marching armies through Jewish communities
Survival When Empires Vanish
SPEAKER_00on the way to a holy war that treated us as collateral damage. There were, of course, the Inquisition's forced conversions from Spain to Portugal to Russia. They tried to erase us by making disappearance the price of safety. Genocidal regimes in living memory, not ancient history, but living memory, of course, tried to annihilate us entirely with an efficiency and an industry that should have succeeded. Each time, by historical calculation, that should have been the end of the Jewish story. And here's the word here's the part worth pausing on. Empires that were larger and wealthier, far more powerful than we ever were, have completely vanished. I don't know any Assyrians, do you? I don't know any Babylonians. Rome that exiled us in 70 of the Common Era is gone. And yet we are still here. We are still reading the same Torah. We are still reading the same Torah portion this week that the Jews read when Rome fell. Every time we were nearly erased, we returned. We rebuilt Jerusalem. We built a state that lay dormant for 2,000 years and has stood back up. We kept arguing over Talmud in study halls that were literally rebuilt from rubble. They herded us into ghettos, and within those walls, we created commentaries and Torah that we still study to this day. We kept Shabbat and holidays in places that tried to make sure that there would be nobody left to light a candle. This pattern does not have a natural explanation, but it does have a spiritual one. We see it today on both sides of the ocean. Here in America and in Israel, Jews face hostility from directions that would have seemed politically incompatible. Hate from the right, hate from the left,
Today’s Pressure And October 7
SPEAKER_00meeting from opposite ends of the spectrum to arrive somehow at the exact same target, the Jews. And still, we are not merely surviving that pressure. We are still building, we are teaching, we are praying, we have come together here, not in fear, but in faith. We are raising families who identify proudly as Jews. We're sending our kids to Jewish day schools and summer camps and universities where standing up as a Jew these days sometimes takes real courage. And here's an interesting little factoid from for you. After October 7th, and Jews were attacked and persecuted for being Jewish, do you know what happened? A very substantial number of totally secular Jews identified publicly and strongly with both their Jewish heritage and with Israel. In the most strange twist of events, October 7th, in many cases, created stronger and more knowledgeable Jews. A truly unintended consequence of antisemitism. The lesson here is simple. We thrive not because we ignore the danger, but while we look directly at it. And why? I believe the answer is exactly what Targum Yonatan pointed out.
Humility, Destiny, And Strength Beyond Us
SPEAKER_00It is about humility, not smallness of ambition, but smallness of ego relative to something larger than ourselves. Maybe knowledge that we belong to a truly ancient people. Maybe knowing that each of us in this sanctuary tonight has a shared destiny. Maybe being aware that we all stood at Sinai together. We are a people who believe that the ultimate source of our strength, even though it would have burned out centuries ago, thrived. We understand ourselves as vessels for something beyond ourselves. We have a different kind of endurance, because the strength that we are drawing on was never finite to begin with. We were never the point. The number of us were never the point. We were chosen, Moses tells us, not because of how many we were, not because of our greatness, but because of our smallness, to carry a message to the world that was never really about us. That's the humility that this Torah portion tells us to hang on to, not to shrink from what we've contributed, not to hide from what we're facing, but to remember where the strength to face it actually comes from. Yes, we are the fewest of all peoples. We are also the people who gave the world the idea that a single God cares how human beings treat one another. These two facts sitting side by side are not a contradiction. They are the whole point. Am Yisrael Chai, the people of Israel lives, not because we are many, but because we were never trying to be the biggest story in the room. Shabbat Shalom.